PinnedIt Ended Before It Even BegunWhat I learned about relationships from an online fling. — · A brief summary of my complicated dating life · Meeting on Facebook · Flirted on WhatsApp · She blocked and unblocked me on WhatsApp and unfriended and refriended me on Facebook · Discussing our first meeting · The sex talk · The love talk · The talk about relocating to another country · Revealing her flaws · What…Relationships19 min readRelationships19 min read
Published in What Is Love To You?·PinnedA Dose of Reality-Check for Modern WomenToxic femininity from a male perspective. — If you’ve been a fan of my work for some time now, you would remember that there was a time when I came for men for their toxic masculinity in my story below. Toxic Masculinity From a Male Perspective Are men really happier than women?medium.com Now, I’m coming for you ladies and I will not hold back! If the shoe doesn’t fit…Modern Dating15 min readModern Dating15 min read
Published in The Orange Journal·PinnedToxic Masculinity From a Male PerspectiveAre men really happier than women? — I’m not writing this article because I want to and I wasn’t planning on returning here to write and publish anytime soon. So, thanks to a certain video on YouTube I felt compelled to say something out of concern and frustration! …Masculinity9 min readMasculinity9 min read
PinnedTop 5 Money-Saving Tips You’ll Ever NeedIf they can work wonders for me, they can work for you too. — There is no greater feeling than knowing that you’re far from being broke, is there? I may have written an article at some point claiming that I don’t like money, but I do need it, and so do you and the rest of the world. Please note that this article…Financial Planning8 min readFinancial Planning8 min read
Published in New Writers Welcome·PinnedAbout Me — Lindokuhle ShanduI’m an introvert, but what else? — · Who am I? · Where do I come from? · Who I was? · How did I start writing? · Who am I becoming? · Be you: a message from me to you One day, you’ll find the above picture in the Hire Me page of my freelance copywriter…About Me10 min readAbout Me10 min read
Feb 20Who Are the Prize Between Men and Women?The answer is very simple, but it’s not what you think it is. — · Typical female argument · Typical male argument · My standpoint Typical female argument I’ve seen a lot of modern women on the internet giving one and the same response to the question “who are the prize between men and women?” …Toxic Masculinity7 min readToxic Masculinity7 min read
Published in MIDFORM·Feb 20I Am Nobody’s Fan, but I Am a SupporterThere’s a difference between the two. — This is something that has been on my mind for years but have never expressed through words, until I came across an article by Your NativeFriend about 5 minutes ago before I started writing this piece. I must admit that growing up I was a huge Beyoncé and Michael Jackson…Celebrity3 min readCelebrity3 min read
Published in MIDFORM·Feb 19This is Why I Will Never Take Feminism SeriouslyAllow me to destroy feminism with 10 simple questions. — This may trigger a lot of feminists, but that’s not my concern. Let’s define the term first. Feminism is the belief in social, economic, and political equality of the sexes. Although largely originating in the West, feminism is manifested worldwide and is represented by various institutions committed to activity on…Feminism3 min readFeminism3 min read
Published in Know Thyself, Heal Thyself·Feb 5Why You Should Quit Bitching About Turning 30 or Approaching 30?Seriously. Just stop! — It’s been a minute since I vented on Medium, but I feel compelled to. I’ve seen a number of my peers who I both know and don’t know on social media bitching about growing older, and it concerns, disappoints, and frustrates me. Memes have also been created regarding this and…Turning 303 min readTurning 303 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Aug 5, 2022I Still Haven’t Found My PurposeOr perhaps it hasn’t found me. I don’t really know. — · What is meant by purpose? · What does purpose mean to me? · I don’t have a plan · My thoughts on finding purpose in books · Giving up control · Conclusion What is meant by purpose? I don’t have it all figured out. I think the word purpose means different things to different…Finding Purpose4 min readFinding Purpose4 min read